Islam is not the problem

Inside a mosque in Malaysia
What can one say about what happened in Paris last week? How to adequately address this manifestation of humanity’s darkest potential? I’m not sure how to do it well, but I’ve seen some examples of how to do it incredibly poorly.
So, as John Oliver said: “after the many necessary and appropriate moments of silence”, I want to shout that this, as all of these incidents, is not a situation of Islam versus The West, nor Christianity, nor democracy, nor anything else. This is a case of Extremism versus Human Decency.
If you’ve met any Muslims through any medium other than TV “news” you know that they are people. Not terrorists, not extremists. People. Just like you and I. I wish I could take anyone who says differently with me to my class, where tables full of Syrian, Iraqi, Rohingya, and other refugees show me the true face of human kindness, the profound depth of human decency. They are solidly on “our side”. The talking heads of the TV networks on the other hand, seem solidly on the side of extremism. The danger of that is insidious and shameful.

A boy in rural Turkey
This misunderstanding of the nature of the conflict is what allows “our” government (and its business interests) to pursue the “War on Terror.” The tragedy of that strategy goes far beyond my ability to express. You can not go to war with Terrorism. It is an idea, not an opponent. It’s like trying to dry your clothes by spraying them with the garden hose. It only makes the problem worse.
We’ve seen, time and time again, that “our” bombs don’t just land on extremists. They land on innocents, and bystanders, and angry people, and sad people, and markets, and schools, and hospitals, and weddings. For every extremist “we” kill, we create a dozen more. We’re standing in the sun, hoping it will cure our sunburn.

Somewhere in rural Tanzania
You already know this. Every child knows this. Little Jimmy says Tommy is a doodoo head. The other kids aren’t so sure, Tommy seems fine to them, though he doesn’t share his potato chips very well. Then Tommy comes up and punches Jimmy in the face. Now everyone agrees, Tommy is a complete asshole.
It would be funny, except we do that with missiles.
So how should we respond? That’s the challenge of our age, to somehow improve the rampant inequality that fosters this anger, the widespread lack of education that allows extremism to take root, and most of all, the profound absence of hope for any better option that makes someone pursue the type of indiscriminate violence that I believe is fundamentally against our human nature. We don’t want to kill, but if you saw only bleakness ahead for your children, what wouldn’t you do? And as if that isn’t difficult enough already, we will have to do it, for an extended period, even in the face of the ongoing attacks that are already growing. It seems an impossible goal, but given the world’s capacity to generate wealth, I bet we can do a step or ten-thousand better. Call me an optimist.
But for starters? How about we stop making things worse? We stop blaming an entire religion for the actions of a few. (We can talk another time about the truly insane quantity of violence perpetrated by each of the religions of Abraham, but for now, do the Westboro Baptists represent Christianity?) We can acknowledge that Islam is only a religion, not a personality type, and certainly not a psychological dysfunction! Once we stop actively producing more terrorists, we can start to heal the deeper wounds that are producing them in the first place.

Not terrorists. Just people. Good people.
I’d like to give it four years. Just one presidential term. Instead of spending billions of dollars on bombs to kill Middle Easterners, we spend it helping those people who want to help themselves and each other. Pour ourselves into peace and improvement, instead of death and Halliburton. If you think there is no one left in the Middle East who wants peace, wants safety, wants a better world for their children? Then you’ve been watching the wrong TV.
A voice of reason. Thank you.
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Thank YOU, and everyone else. I made a mistake a couple days ago and advocated compassion and understanding instead of hatred in a facebook discussion among very angry people, and was partially amazed and partially depressed at the dozen+ personal attacks that came my way within the first 60 seconds. So I appreciate every agreeing nod I can find!
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You didn’t make a mistake. You made a statement that so many more should have the courage to make. We have to keep talking like this and maybe it will get through to those who are so angry and so ill-informed.
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That’s how I felt, and still feel, but I have to be more careful about when and where, I think. A friend made this point last night… But I think I might blog about it, so might hold it back for now. Sorry to be so mysterious!
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Nothing wrong with being mysterious. I’ll wait with interest Oh Mysterious One.
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Like John Lennon said “Let’s give peace a chance.”
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Sounds like a plan! Peace has been working pretty well, in my experience, in the long beautiful stretches in which I/we have been privileged to feel it. And we’ll keep giving it a chance no matter how many times it hiccoughs. (That may not make sense. I think I know what tomorrow’s blog will be, now… Thank you!)
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Well said.
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Thank you. I’m curious what tone and type of discussion you’re hearing about all this in your neck of the woods…
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The UAE is a place where different religions are respected, and extremism not tolerated. Extremists of any kind will always distort words, religions, or philosophies to suit their own agendas, and the Muslims I know here, are as shocked and horrified by acts of terror as you and I. What I have learned in my time here is that the Western view of Islam is, sadly, a very distorted one.
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Would you mind hosting a few visitors? Cuz I’m thinking a few people (ie presidential candidates and “news” anchors) would benefit from spending some time with you there. 🙂 Or, that failing, maybe I’ll just hide there if we elect a Republican next year. Isn’t that a pretty idea, just slightly contrary to the package they’re selling us? American has to flee to the Middle East to escape extremism.
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You are always welcome to hide here. 😉 I’m not sure the people you refer to will enjoy it here, though, as they may see evil lurking in the most innocent encounters. You know how it is – people tend to see and experience mostly that which they focus on.
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That’s an interesting thought experiment. If you took the most paranoid and racist Americans and plopped them down in the Middle East, would they evolve or shut down? Maybe case by case. Either way, I may take you up on that refuge. The various ruins and historical sites out in the sand are entirely enticing.
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🙂
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Worldwide there are very, very distorted views about Islam. Such a pity.
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Very true. It’s a profound shame that so many of our media and “leaders” are promulgating lies instead of humanity. Well, I guess we’ll just have to tell a few real-life stories of humanity and compassion then. Suddenly I wish I had been less shy, less independent, and more fluent in Arabic during certain of my travels!
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I agree with you.
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I think I’d keep believing it even if I was the only one, but good lordylordy it’s nice to hear I’m not! Thank you!
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Thank you Tim!
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Thank you, Kathy! Some of this reminds me of Venezuela, actually. When we have people talking fearfully about other people they’ve never met, based on input from media they cannot possibly vet. Scary.
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So well put buddy!
It’s just a sad state…with “progressive” years, humanity is taking a back seat. Terrorists have no religion! Period!!
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That’s the scary side of religion, for me. That it can be twisted from an attempt to reach peace, understanding, and spiritual fulfillment into something vile and corrosive. I can only imagine the spiritual pain of the vast majority of Muslims in the face of the blasphemy against their faith being committed by these [long list of expletives].
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Sorry to bum you out! Religion can also form a beautiful part of people’s lives, and I try to remember that this is the case 99.999999999% of the time. 🙂
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I have lost religion in my journey… I am happy to be a hippy at the moment and following the middle path of Buddha!
A Hindu by birth but a global gypsy now!!
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Sounds like you lost religion but found spirituality? I’m of that camp too, and happily so.
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If you made a mistake, it was posting on Facebook, that communications platform dedicated to, and wholly suited for, in-depth, nuanced discussion of complex ideas. (Where’s that sarcasm emoticon?) Every time I log in to FB–which isn’t often–I’m reminded of why it’s been so long since I last accessed the site. My most recent visit there put me face-to-face with some truly vicious vitriol on this subject; I was shocked, but I suppose I shouldn’t have been…
Every passing day seems to bring forth new evidence that George Santayana was right. We’ve got presidential nomination frontrunners openly declaring support for an enforced governmental Islamic registry, Constitution (that pesky First Amendment), common sense and past experience be damned and closing down houses of worship. We’ve got governors from more than half the states in this country falling all over themselves to (somehow) “bar the door” to Syrian refugees fleeing a war zone that has killed at least 200,000 people, with no end in sight to the carnage. We’ve got people on Facebook posting Internet memes that state that as long as it’s a Muslim who dies, that’s just fine with them.
It’s utterly appalling. And the lessons of the past–the Jewish registry established in Nazi Germany in the 1930s, the internment of Japanese-Americans during WWII, the turning away of the ship St. Louis in 1939–seem to simply drift away with the wind.
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I’m sorry your facebook feed was so full of that weakness. 😦 I wish I could share mine with you, and dear lord I hope that doesn’t sound like I’m bragging, I genuinely wish I could share the fortifying experience of seeing post after post endorsing humanity, compassion, and what I think of as American values.
But for a public one… This is the list of Democrats who caved to Republican xenophobia and paranoia-mongering by voting to further restrict Syrian refugees. http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/house-democrats-refugee-bill_564e5101e4b0258edb30ca4e My fantastic congresswoman (Barbara Lee) is definitely not on it, but I recognized John Garamendi as being from my general area. I stopped by his facebook page to have a look and found 437 comments about it, forming a long and beautiful chain of democracy, as his constituents tell him how disappointed they are in him. It made me proud. https://www.facebook.com/repgaramendi
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Very disappointed to see that Nebraska’s Democratic representative was one of the 47 to cave in.
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Oy, I know the feeling. It is/will be/would be great to see compassion as a bipartisan value, instead of fearmongering and misanthropic overreaction. Gotta figure out how to push that pendulum back in the other direction…
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Most of the people on my FB feed are people I really don’t know–people who are my “friends” based on requests through mutual acquaintances. And I don’t want to make it sound as though most of them have passed along such hateful attitudes–most, in fact, did not. But a few did and it was remarkable to me how many of these people were so gleeful about the kinds of things they were posting.
I’m moderately encouraged by how much push back some of the most outrageous proposals…but not as encouraged as I’d like to be.
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There is something tragically easy for the vicious proponents of intolerance. Maybe hatred always gets the louder megaphone? My lady is reading a book about our cultural shift towards (over)valuing extroverts and how damaging it is to our national mindset. I realize intro/extroversion isn’t the same as thoughtful/shock doctor-ish, but I think we’ve had a corresponding shift towards the loudest, most extravagant claims, instead of doing the work to understand nuanced and thoughtful positions. Enter: Trump.
The other factor, presumably less on facebook but that’s still going to reflect it, is that the national media love anger and fear, and seem to be aggressively censoring calls for reason and compassion. Not sure if it’s just a matter of ratings and competition, or more of a conspiratorial cabal that wants us to go to war, but either way, when the voices with the FCC licences are committed to aggression, they’re going to drag down the tone of the conversation.
Sorry, thinking out loud here. But the point I’m hoping to reach 😉 is that I still have faith that the actual minds of the people are more peaceful and loving than the discourse might reflect. Now it’s just a matter of trying to get democracy to work!
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There’s a large part of me that thinks that we’ve gone through the looking glass at this point. Witness the Trump campaign. When he officially announced that he was running for the GOP presidential nomination (when was that–back in the late spring?), I said that this amounted to turning what was already a three-ring circus into a nine-ring circus. And for awhile, the process did seem to engender a kind of Barnum & Bailey clown car style amusement.
That all came to a clear end when the Bill of Rights began to face extinction (closing mosques, establishing religion-based registries) and past events began to be invented out of whole-cloth (thousands in Jersey City cheering the collapse of the Twin Towers).
All of this seemed to be (mostly) met with a collective shrug…a kind of “that’s Trump being Trump” attitude. This is the acknowledged Republican presidential frontrunner we’re talking about.
I haven’t anything like this kind of high-level demagoguery before. (I’m not quite old enough to remember George Wallace in his heyday and the likes of Joe McCarthy and Father Coughlin are way before my time.) I’m not sure what worries me more: the race-baiting, the lying and the neo-fascist pronouncements on the part of a serious (?) presidential contender or the comparatively cavalier attitude that it seems to have inspired.
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I completely agree. At first I thought of Trump as just nonsense entertainment, empty filler, visual marshmallows for our bloated entertainment news, but now I think that’s drastically underestimating the monster. I think he as an individual is basically just a jackass, and no longer in control of himself (jumping on the “ban Starbucks because Jesus is a snowflake” bandwagon revealed him as another empty facade politician), but his popularity reveals the extent to which racism and a willful desire to not be intelligent have infiltrated this country. And to which our media have let us down in not vivisecting him. (Did you see this article in Rolling Stone? Interesting stuff. http://www.rollingstone.com/politics/news/america-is-too-dumb-for-tv-news-20151125)
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A closed information loop and confirmation bias is a powerful, powerful combination.
If there’s a common thread to all of this, it’s an inability or unwillingness to THINK. Some of these memes that have been tossed around for years and more or less accepted as axioms by a significant percentage of the population are breathtakingly absurd on their face…if you simply bother to think about them for two seconds. My personal longstanding favorite is the “liberal media.” I’ve been hearing that one since I was a kid. How does that make any sense? Consider that the owners of “the media” are, essentially without exception, large corporations who have absolutely no incentive whatsoever to spin things in a “liberal” direction. And yet, the meme persists.
I think the article is essentially correct: the American public, writ large, really is too dumb for TV news at this point.
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Ach! Thank you! That one drives me up the wall as well! No matter how often they say “the liberal media” that doesn’t mean it’s true, people!!! Ugh. Except that’s the purpose, and success, of Fox News. To repeat nonsense until people believe it, and never mention truth/perspective until people forget it.
Man, it’s depressing, even before you see how well it works. But maybe, just maybe, the Silent Majority is more fed up with it than we think, than the media show, and are just waiting for another exciting candidate? I heard Bernie has more donors than any candidate in history…
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Thank you for this intelligent post. Of course, extremism is always dangerous. However, some people have a penchant for killing. The Terrorists remind me of the Kamakaze pilots of WW11 who commited suicide by flying their planes into a target(like the 9/11 episode in NY). These people now are ready to die for 72 virgins. I wonder what the reward is for the females who are walking bombs? As for the candidates for the Presidency of the USA, the GOP has become a mockery under Trump who is completely irresponsible and bigoted in his comments and actions. He’s a grandstander, shrewd in appealing to the people who are ignorant of the laws of the land and a “Mommy, look at me! ” personality. God help us.
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That’s the thing that boggles me. I understand that people on the Left, and the party that comes closest to representing us, despise Trump. But how can intelligent Republicans stand him speaking for them? It makes it terribly easy to think that everyone on the Right is as bad as he is, which has to be a disservice to most of them.
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Hah. It reminds me of the “Muslims need to stand up against terrorists” statement. The people with brains and souls need to distance themselves from the whackjobs giving them a bad name. But how to do that when they’re on the news every night?
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The man is almost certifiable, and I agree that his party must be horrified that he is in the lead, but no one seems to be challenging him with any kind of authority or intelligence. It’s a sorry state of affairs.
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I completely agree. I think it’s proof of just how vicious and petty our political parties are; they’d rather support someone they don’t actually support who can “win” than actually put forward someone they agree with.
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