What Brussels is to me

A random street in Schaerbeek, just across the tracks from the now infamous Molenbeek. A predominantly Muslim area, I was always treated with nothing but respect.
Brussels? The first memory that comes to mind is feeling like an episode of The Office had leaked into real life. These guys, with their corny jokes and awkward attempts at flirting, worked for a paper company. It was just so perfect.
I’d contacted a Belgian tour company and they’d sent me to tag along with these business trippers for an hour. I was fascinated by the improbable story of Belgian independence, but they mostly talked about sports, and the only thing I wrote down was “Don’t talk about something you can’t show.” Can’t say I’ll always obey that edict, now that I am a guide, nor can I follow it in this post

Brussels is not the dour place some say.
Because how can I show the swirl of emotion as very different images from Brussels slam into the news? The horror and sorrow and empathy and anger and confusion and sick knowledge that this happens much more often in a few other countries, and is no less horrible in commonality than rarity, perhaps only more so.
And fear. That’s in there too. But not fear of a terrorist attack, which I still believe is not something you or I will ever actually experience. Shark attacks, plane crashes, terrorist attacks. They are scary, they happen, but they are not factors in how I choose to plan my life. I like swimming, I take a lot of flights, and I believe there is far more goodness, more peace, in the human soul than violence.

I never did find out what was going on with this. Somewhere in Brussels.
No, the fear I feel is that we will assist the extremists in their goals. That we will respond in exactly the wrong way. Because that conviction of mankind’s goodness is difficult to maintain sometimes. In myself, when I feel the desire to see someone punished for the violence, and the first image is more explosions, and I wait for my animal amygdala to give way to my human neocortex, which understands that violence only creates more violence.
And that fear is strong, that conviction of human goodness strained, when I watch the Republican primaries, and the bragging demonstration of a viewpoint that scorns such understanding. Scorns much understanding at all, as far as I can tell. It seems clear to me that Donald Trump is running on a platform of willful ignorance, and such arrogant idiocy has never been more dangerous.

I had a great lunch in a Turkish place just around the corner after taking this.
Because make no mistake, the lunatics who killed people in Brussels would like nothing better than to see Trump elected. Their gameplan is fear, anger, reaction. Us versus Them. No comprehension, no discussion, no progress, only a devolution to a world of warring tribes and caliphates. That’s what terrorism does. It removes the evolved brain from the decision-making process. As I’ve written before, terrorism is the strategy of the weak.

Brussels is not a city of fear. And this statue of theirs rather reflects how I view Trump’s candidacy. If he wins, then fear. Until then?
I for one do not want to live in that kind of world. I’d rather live in this one, where awkward businessmen in semi-fitting suits can ignore tour guides while I sit in the back of the bus, a peaceful piece of person afloat in a beautiful world, because even though that world has its problems, I have faith that humans are determined to make positive progress towards a better future.
Or you can vote for Trump.
My mind brims with wonderful memories of Brussels and Belgium. May calm return and may the country do more to embrace her Muslim residents.
LikeLike
Absolutely, on all counts! Belgium has a rather unique position, when it comes to integration. On the one hand, they’re the least nationalistic people I’ve known, and most internationally-minded… But on the other, their government structure is already overwhelmed just with maintaining itself. Add to the the rather large behavioral differences, plus the dourness of a population that doesn’t get much sunlight, and it doesn’t surprise me that you get some grumbling. But I think Belgians are a kind people, and given calm and time, and a better balanced budget, they could be a very welcoming nation.
LikeLike
Thank you, you really summarized the way I am thinking too.
LikeLike
I’m very glad to hear it. I think there are a lot of us, the vast majority in fact, but sometimes it’s hard to feel like the Earth is a reasonable place anymore. But it is!
LikeLiked by 1 person
I have faith that humans are determined to make positive progress towards a better future. But if Trump wins the election, that faith will be deeply shaken.
LikeLike
It’s odd how the problem can sometimes be turned into a reassurance… Case in point, I think they only way he could be elected would be if enough people with brains, which I have to believe constitutes the majority, don’t vote… At which point we can try to reassure ourselves that people are not as bad as their actions. That argument feels terribly feeble, I hope I never have to make it!
Makuwa Lisa for President! Just saying.
LikeLike
I feel exactly the same way. I’m already struggling with dismay at how many people support that guy. But I think for most of them, it’s the idea of Trump-as-outsider they like, and are either too lazy to pay attention to his actual character, or they just think it’s harmless hot air. But if there is one thing that man is not, it’s compassionate. And if there’s a second thing he’s not, it’s harmless.
LikeLike
Don’t leave Ted Cruz and his own special brand of opportunism out of your consideration…
LikeLike
*shudder* That guy… Oh lordie. I have to believe that future textbooks will use him as a case study of how far from useful and ethical the US government got in the early 21st century. Hopefully he’ll be to the next generation what McCarthy was to mine.
LikeLike
I presume you’re referring to Joe McCarthy, not Eugene. 🙂
If so, let’s hope that Ted doesn’t get the CHANCE to have the quantitative (negative) impact Joseph McCarthy had.
LikeLike